BDSM Articles
BDSM Safety: Subspace and After Care
For those who are new to the BDSM lifestyle, there are certain aspects of a scene that aren’t fully understood until it is too late. One such aspect is subspace, also referred to as subdrop. Subspace is a metaphor for the state of mind for a submissive.
http://www.associatedcontent.comarticle/403110/bdsm_safety_subspace_and_after_care.html
BDSM Safety: Hard Limits, Soft Limits
By definition, a limit is a point at which something terminates. In the BDSM lifestyle, limits are considered hard and soft limits.
http://www.associatedcontent.comarticle/423523/bdsm_safety_hard_limits_soft_limits.html
BDSM Submissive VS. Slave: Is There a Difference?
In a lot of circles, the terms submissive and slave are used interchangeably. In others, submissive is designated as a different level of submission than a slave is.
http://www.associatedcontent.comarticle/376732/bdsm_submissive_vs_slave_is_there_a.html
BDSM: When is it Kinky Sex and when is it Abuse?
One of the biggest myths about BDSM is that Dominants are just abusers using the lifestyle to make excuses for their behavior. This isn’t the case for the majority of people who enjoy the lifestyle, there are those who do hide behind kink to abuse their partners.
http://www.associatedcontent.comarticle/372794/bdsm_when_is_it_kinky_sex_and_when.html
BDSM Safety: Using Safe Words
Have you ever been in the middle of some hot sex and all of the sudden it goes to far? You tell your partner to stop or say no and they listen (or should at least) and stop. BDSM scenes work much the same way, but in some cases no and stop don’t truly mean no or stop.
http://www.associatedcontent.comarticle/373124/bdsm_safety_using_safe_words.html
Being a Switch: Submissive and Dominant
This is the next in my series of bdsm lifestyle editorials. This one is on being a switch and whether they have the best of both worlds.
http://www.associatedcontent.comarticle/26650/being_a_switch_submissive_and_dominant.html
The Bottom Topping Submissive
This article is another in my bdsm lifestyle series. This editorial is in regards to the problem of the submissive who tops from the bottom.
http://www.associatedcontent.comarticle/26644/the_bottom_topping_submissive.html
Submissive Relationships
This article is just some of my views on submssion, from a general perpective, as well as a personal level. Too many people view BDSM as a kinky bedroom play, but to many people it is so much more than that.
http://www.associatedcontent.comarticle/23112/submissive_relationships.html